Seductive Body Language
I want you to imagine Jake – a 6’1″ man with strapping muscles, a chiseled jaw, and the voice of Barry White. He spots Jessica – a five-foot six-inch female with golden locks, large breasts, and red high heels. Within minutes of conversation, he starts dancing with her. Minutes later, he’s playing tonsil hockey with her.
Imagine a planet exactly like planet earth. It has exact replicas of everything on planet earth – the same bars, restaurants, political leaders… and so on. Just like on planet earth, H20 is water. The exact same events that happen on earth happen on this planet. There’s even a twin earth Jake approaching a twin earth Susan.
Seems exactly the same as earth, right?
However, one event on twin earth unfolds a little differently than it does on earth: twin earth Jessica slaps twin earth Jake across the face.
That’s because earth Jake and twin earth Jake have one major difference: their body language.
While earth Jake held strong eye contact, twin earth Jake’s eyes were shifting around like two pinballs.
When earth Jake talked to earth Jessica he leaned back. On the other hand, when twin earth Jake talked to twin earth Jessica, he leaned toward her, communicating that he was needy.
When earth Jessica asked earth Jake an uncomfortable question, his body language was nonreactive. When twin earth Jessica asked twin earth Jake an uncomfortable question, he started twitching.
When talking to female strangers is your body language more like earth Jake or twin earth Jake? If it’s more like twin earth Jake, your body language is severely crippling your potential success with women. If that’s the case, I want you to do the following exercises.
1) Practice holding a steady gaze when talking to women: this will make you come across a lot more dominant and attractive to the opposite sex.
2) Practice leaning back when interacting with females: too many guys lean in when talking to girls in noisy places because they worry that the women won’t hear them. Don’t do this. It comes across as needy. When you lean back it forces the woman to lean into you. When she leans into you, you become the Prize she wants to win over.
3) When a woman insults you or asks you something uncomfortable, don’t react: when women ask embarrassing questions, most men squirm around like little girls. This makes them come across as weak and unattractive. Plus, the person least reactive in a social situation is in control of the interaction. If you train yourself to be nonreactive, you’ll be very powerful with women.
This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.
Whether you’re into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.
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